Now for all you daddies and kids out there trying to figure out what to do for mother’s day. #1 rule is DO NOT LISTEN if the mommy says “aw, don’t worry bout it, I don’t need anything.” We’re programmed to not ask much, it’s the mommy nature. If you want to get your mom or mother of you kids bawling happy tears then do something big, celebrate all she’s done for you.

Here’s some simple tips and ideas on what to do for her.

Handmade cards rule over store bought ones — take 10 minutes and make her a card using a few sheets of construction paper and colored pens.

Bring her tea/coffee in bed. Even if you have to set your alarm to get up before her. It doesn’t have to be a full breakfast, just something you know she normally would have.

Do the dishes without being asked or any other chore she normally does daily. (IE vacuum, dust, bathe the dogs.)

Skip the flowers and buy her her favorite candy bar, coffee or other extravagent item she normally wouldn’t buy herself but always wants.

Clean out her car! Vacuum, wipe down and windex it all. Don’t let her lift a finger!

Tell her you love her and really appreciate all the things she does every day to make your life easier. Hug her and tell her she’s the best mom!

Happy Mother’s Day!

Then the last few days I’ve been participating on a message forum and the most often asked questions and topics revolve around relationships. I feel almost innundated by everyone’s need to be with someone. Look in the media, newspapers, internet, clothing….everything we do revolves around getting sex, that 1 special person, the ultimate relationship.

That got me to thinking about my marriage and how it really is pretty damn good. What is it though that makes it good? I think for my husband it’s one thing, for me it’s another. So I figured I’d give some of you married men out there some tips on how to get the one thing, sex, more often with very little effort.

The biggest complaint I hear from my women friends is “He doesn’t pay enough attention to me.” In all honesty men, it’s not that much to make a little extra effort in the attention department. We’re not asking you to wait on us hand and foot but you can do some simple things to make us feel we’re getting your undivided attention and tons of affection. Try these few simple things today and then tonight when it’s bedtime snuggle up to her, kiss her neck and just see if she doesn’t go for it.

1. Whenever she talks to you look at her in the eye.
2. If you go shopping or out somewhere, hold her hand or put your arm around her.
3. Next time you walk by her when you’re in the house stop and kiss her, even if it’s on the cheek. Even if she’s on the phone or otherwise busy. Repeat this as often as you can and try to make one a tongue kiss.
4. Ask her a question and really listen to the answer. Don’t answer it yourself, just listen.

Good luck guys and remember, cuddling if within an hour of sex = sex to a woman and doesn’t count as true cuddling!